Today I am sharing front stoop memories with my grandfather. I know, sounds kind of silly but if you follow us on facebook, you may have seen my facebook share last week about hanging out with my grandfather. Living in a multigenerational home (going on 8 years now), has given me so many more memories that I normally wouldn’t have had otherwise. It’s kind of crazy when I really think about it. We recently partnered with Tylenol and each month going forward, I will be sharing “how we family.” There are so many families out there and #howwefamily is different for everyone. We just happen to do our family with nine people under one roof.
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Front stoop memories with my grandfather
A few days ago, I was planting and watering the flowers in the front of our house and I was watching my grandfather move his truck in the driveway. You see, we do the car shuffle often at our house because he has two cars. My grandmother has never had her license and she can’t get into his little pickup truck (his baby) so they keep the car for her. He was moving his truck so he could get the car out to take her for a ride.
After he moved his truck, he walked over to me and said, “kid, I am getting old.”
I laughed and said, “really?”
I told him to have a seat on the front step and take a load off. We sat on the front step for about 30 minutes and he told me a bunch of stories from 50+ years ago. He sometimes get scared that he won’t have enough money to survive and take care of he and my gram. I reassured him that he has plenty and if he ran out, we would take care of them. I think getting old can be a pretty scary place. Our conversation was all over the place as he was jumping from one topic to another so I know his brain and thoughts were a little scrambled so I just listened, giggled and agreed with him.
A big part of our conversation was about financial planning for what would happen if one of my grandparents needed to enter a nursing home and how health care works. The state of Massachusetts (and probably many other states) is so confusing when it comes to elder care. We found a great Elder Care Attorney who will be helping us navigate these waters and make sure my grandparents have all their “i’s dotted and t’s crossed.” This should have been done a few years ago but my grandfather wasn’t ready to discuss finances with anyone until recently. He’s kind of stubborn. -ha. More on elder care planning and health care in another post.
(My brother, my grandfather, my dad, my son and me)
For me, family is all about helping each other and I am so happy that my grandparents have us to help take care of them. They were a big part of my childhood and time has now come full circle. They made me feel safe and secure as a kid. Now it’s my turn to help them feel safe and secure.