Heaven gain another angel, my sweet gram. On the eve of Thanksgiving at 10pm, my gram passed away. As many of you know, she had stage 4 lung and hip cancer (which had originated from her Kidney Cancer 15 years ago) and had been living the past 5 months in a nursing home down the street from our house with my grandfather. It’s so hard to believe she is gone but for me, I am very thankful she has left this earth and is now pain free with her family and friends living in heaven. It’s been a bit of a whirlwind this past week. We spent Thanksgiving morning at the Funeral Home making arrangements for next week and then some how, I pulled together a Thanksgiving Dinner that my parents, my family and my grandfather had at our house later in the day.
This is my personal Facebook post from last night that I shared with family and friends.
Bethany says
My condolences to you and your family. I hope all remembering all the good times help to ease the pain. Warm hugs from Rhode Island.
Katie says
I’ve only been following your blog for a short time, but I can see how much family & you Gram meant to you. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Cynthia Spurlock says
I am so sorry! I will be praying for that special peace that passes all understanding for you and your family.
Marcia says
Jessica, I’m really sorry for you and your family, specially your granpa. But as you’ve said… she is no longer suffering and that’s surely a relief for all of you!
Heaven is probably hosting her welcome party, as she seems to be a happy, kind, dedicated person!
kisses ML
Gail says
I am so sorry for you and your family Jess. As you said, your wonderful Gram is at peace and pain-free. My heart goes out to your Grandfather. I hope he will be able to get through this very stressful time. My prayers to all of you.
Crystal says
I was so sad to see this pop into my inbox-
I lost both of my grandparent 2yrs-apart, both on each yrs. Thanksgiving Days & the holiday will forever be changed for you. It has been a bittersweet day for us for the years following as their loss seems at time to be glaring at us the most when we want to just be giving thanks for our blessings. It’s a difficult thing to work through & I pray the God gives each of you exactly what you need to get through this time as best as you possibly can.
My grandparents lived w/my family most of while I was growing up as well & life without them leaves a hole that is very hard to fill. My heart truly goes out to all of you. Your family has been in my prayers daily & will continue to be-
Sending you a hug across the many miles between us & sharing tears with you as well. I have always loved the posts that included your grandparents & will certainly miss the ones featuring your gram! She reminded me so much of my own grandmother & ALWAYS made me smile (& often times lol too)
My grandfather followed a very similar path to the one that yours is on & will very much be in my prayers still as well. Dementia is SO. DANG. HARD! Harder on us I think than them sometimes- but knowing that doesn’t make it much easier-
May You all feel God’s loving embrace just a little bit tighter when you need it the most right now-
Skt4me says
Am so sorry for your loss! You are so fortunate to have her involved in your life all these years and in your son’s life too! I have enjoyed reading about her. Please continue to share your remembrances with so many of us, who feel like we knew her just a little bit!
Dorothty says
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.
Toni says
I’m so sorry for your family and I too feel your loss. I send Blessings to you and your family and ask God to give you all the strength to get through these very difficult days. Please tell your grandpa that I’m sending him special Blessings.
Anonymous says
So very sorry for the loss of your beloved Gram .
Bonnie says
Jessica, I realize that this must have been a really hard post to write. Thank you for sharing with us the news about your grandmother so that we can send our thoughts and prayers to you and to your family.
Terri Hughes says
Jessica, so sorry to hear the sad news of your grandmother passing. It is always hard when someone passes away, especially, during the holidays. It’s hard to let go, but it is comforting to know that they are not in pain and suffering. Like you said, your grandmother is in heaven with God. She had a special Thanksgiving this year. Praying that God will give you and your family, especially your grandfather, strength and comfort, through the coming days. You will always have special memories of your grandmother and she will always be in your heart. She is at peace. God Bless and comfort you and your family. Continued prayers. ”RIP GRAMS”
Juanita in OH says
May she rest in eternal peace. I understand how you must feel knowing she is no longer struggling and working so hard to get through the day; yet, you would still LOVE if she were here and in a healthy condition. I am so sad that her sisters did not make it in time to see her. My heart and prayers go out to all of you. I feel like we have lost her too. I am happy that your grandfather had the ability to understand even if it were for just a moment, give him a kiss and a big hug for me. God Bless each and everyone of you during this extremely difficult time. Sending warm cyber hugs!
Arli says
My sympathies to you and your whole family. I have so enjoyed reading about your big, beautiful family for all these years, and I am sure this loss will be deeply felt. May your grandmother Rest In Peace.
Cheri says
Jessica
I am so very sorry to read about your grandmother’s passing. I’ve followed your blog for a while and always envied your family life style. Your grandparents were of special interest to me as I’ve lost both sets. They touched me. Wish you and your family peace and big hugs to your grandfather. I hope knowing how many lives you and your family touch helps in some way. Your grandparents smiles could light up the page. God’s blessings and grand love.
Cheri
Sue says
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Brenda says
I’m sorry for your loss, but I’m glad you were able to spend that last night with her. Your last words to her were appropriate, even though you didn’t know it at the time. That’s good your grandpa was able to spend some time with her as well. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
Alison Kaminky says
I’m very sorry. You were an amazing granddaughter…you were both lucky and blessed to have each other. My sympathies and prayers for your grandfather and all of you.
Kim says
Hi, Jessica: I’m so very sorry for your family’s loss. Thank you for sharing her with us here on the blog. Sending you virtual hugs.
Carolyn says
So sorry for your loss Jessica–may god bless you, your family and your sweet grandmother especially.
Guerrina says
Jessica, I am so sorry. Bear hugs.
Khadija says
I’m so very sorry for your lost. Sending hugs to your family.
Armenia Pagan says
Hi Jessica, my condolence and prayers to you, your grandfather and family. God bless all of you.
Cheryl Autrey says
I am so sorry for your loss of your Precious Gram. Prayers for you and your family. Also, for your sweet Granddad. Sending Love and Hugs too.
Ivory says
We are sadden for you and your family for your loss. Our heart and prayers are sent to God for you and your family. Be strong, and may God’s Holy Spirit be with you.
S says
I am very sorry for your loss – how fortunate she had you and your family to surround her with love until her end. Rest in Peace.
Melissa Smith says
So very sorry for your loss, God Bless You and your family and most importantly your grandmother♥️♥️
Rust says
Her love will be with you always. Her sweetness shines through in the photos I have seen here as her health begin failing. God bless.
Jolena says
So sorry to hear. Praying you are comforted as you celebrate her life and the time you had with her.
MARTHAIA says
I was just thinking of you & your family Thanks giving Night !! So Very Sorry ,,God Bless sending prayers your way…From SC..
Cathy says
Very sorry for your loss xo
Cindy says
Prayers with you and your family ! So much to deal with but you have a big , loving family am
No my heart is with all of you !gods doors were open to greet her ! Take care !
Cindy says
Wow! So sorry for the misspelled words !! Know tha my heart is with you and God has a special place for your sweet Grandma !!
SUSAN SHIPE says
I wasn’t ready to read this about Gram – seems so fast. Love to all of you, Jessica.
Donna says
May God comfort you and your family Jessica. Sending prayers and hugs! So sorry.
Cathy says
So very sorry for your loss, you have a beautiful family, and blessed that you were able to be there for your family thru the good times and bad. Never ever ever feel guilty for not being by her side when she passed, always know that it was in God’s plan and your Gram is certainly a remarkable woman. May she rest in piece.
Jeanine says
My heart goes out to you and your family, but I’m glad that your gram is not suffering anymore. It sounds like she had a beautiful last day on this earth and that you have many wonderful memories together. I know her life was so blessed to have you and the rest of your family so close. Praying for peace, comfort, and even joy for your family during this time.
Joyce says
I am so sorry for your loss, Jessica. I am catching up on my blog reading (very behind). You are a trooper to keep up with your blogging. Your gram is so missed, what a special part of your family.